[Motion for her to put a piece of what she’s eating into your mouth] Me: “Eem, yummy! Notice how I didn’t dive right in and say something like: “I want to fuck you”! That was a perfect example of how to initiate sex talk with your girlfriend or wife. Ok guys, hopefully you get the point of how to go sexual (verbally) with strange girls at bars.I abide by the “crawl-first model” by insinuating sex with the eating of lobster, then I gradually got more sexual. With a girl you’d never been sexual with: it gets a bit trickier. Spank me please so I can learn my lesson that it isn’t cool to go up to random girl and be so forward”! Dirty talking should be commenced subtly using sexual innuendos before getting sexually explicit.Firstly, let’s begin with the 3 most common follies and mistakes guys make when it comes to sex talk: : Bad timing is the most common mistake we make as men.
Let’s get one thing straight…Girls are sexual creatures. Girls think about sex, maybe even more than you do.
Girls, women, whatever you want to refer to the fairer sex as – they are not these pure, chastised creatures many in the media make them out to be.
ROMANTIC CHAT FOR THE LADIES [15 ] Choose between normal romantic chat, or responses that are a little more explicit.
This personality is male and expects to be talking with a female (you).
Not that this is inherently a bad idea, but you have to be socially aware enough as to when you can go verbally sexual and when you shouldn’t.
: Another common mistake when it comes to talking dirty is to jump right into it without warming the girl up first.I’ve also witnessed guys attempt to talk dirty with girls but they run with it before crawling and taking baby steps.This also shows a lack of social intelligence on the guy’s part.Talking dirty with your girlfriend or wife is an easier process than if the girl was someone whom you’d never been sexual with. For a master Pickup Artist and seducer like I am: this is just another cake-walk in Central Park ;). Me: “Plus I have a bit of psychic ability and I’m able to see through things and read intentions. HB: “Lol your crystal ball isn’t that accurate, but a sex on the beach sounds nice” ;). [I took her hand and go into an ESP reading of her palms] Me: “The middle line in your palm is long. Me: “And the short line which connects to your passion signifies the type of person you are sexually. Ummmmm…maybe my body and eyes…” Me: “And the fact that you’re not wearing any underwear”! Me: “Nah seriously, you’re the first girl I ever met at a bar and been so sexually excited about”! : Refrain from engaging in explicit-dirty talks with a girl whom you haven’t met yet in person, i.e. Doing so will create too much cognizant dissonance, thus making her feel slutty for talking that way with a guy whom she never even met before…then she will flake on you!!!For guys who are uncomfortable with talking dirty, this can be challenging. Presuming you’re not a master seductionist…yet, you’ll have to precede with caution as to not get too heavy too early. You know everything on the Internet is true, right”? That means that you’re a person who does whatever she wants and hates when others try to bound her”. It means your very wild but needs someone to bring it out without being too direct”. But quick question: why is it that…I’m so sexually drawn to you? Leave the dirty talking and sexting for girls whom you’d actually met in person, or the ones you had been sexual with before.This is where the drunk guy goes wrong…although he has the right idea. Now, if this is a girl you’d already been on a date with and actually picked up in person, then it’s ok to get explicitly sexual over text and phone conversation.