I’m a late-blooming Scorpio myself; it wasn’t until my career and dating life started taking shape that I began to see some of these traits emerge.But Scorpio is one of the strongest signs, and I do believe that aspects of it come out in all of us eventually.
” you’ll realize hey– wait a second — that is how I feel. She’s so good at controlling you, she’ll have you doing what she wants and thinking it was your idea. She’s wired to be the one who takes initiative, and she won’t wait for anyone else to make decisions for her. And when it comes to getting down, she’s just as comfortable taking the lead.
But the bright side is, she won’t use her powers for evil. That passive-aggressive “I’m fine” girls are known for dropping when they’re actually not fine at all? They’re always direct, and they’re not afraid to speak their minds, even at times they probably shouldn’t. She’s self-motivated, driven and never shy about getting what she wants, whether it’s a job promotion or the hottest guy in the bar. Scorpios are famous for their skills in the sheets, and even the most reserved ones will surprise you behind closed doors.
Don’t think that if you’re on a date with the guy that you either have to sleep with him or break his heart by rejecting him. By being overly sensitive, you often make the wrong decisions. You really have to assert some level of control over your tendency to become oversensitive.
In many cases, especially in terms of relationships, your oversensitivity can cause a lot of problems. It can push you to make decisions that you would regret later on.
You’re the type of person that doesn’t sit on the fence. All you need to do is to be honest with your intensity and your level of passion will show and regardless of what you look like, guys will be attracted on some level or another. I’m sorry to break it to you, but you can’t live your life that way. You look at this person and you see a fat slob, you see a person that’s not going anywhere in his career; you see a person that has serious problems.
You’re the type of person that doesn’t hesitate to make a decision. So when somebody comes along that not only seems to know what she wants and is willing to put her heart in it, people are encouraged. That is your ace in the hole when it comes to dating. As I’ve mentioned earlier, in many cases, the Scorpio’s intensity is actually what sets the Scorpio back. You basically like to look at the world in black and white. Unfortunately, this is very hard for the Scorpio woman to do. And worst of all, you don’t like to admit that you made a mistake. However, trapped within, given the right opportunity lies Mr. Don’t let go of golden opportunities by failing to press the friendship button. You don’t have to reject a guy or become his lover. You probably wouldn’t like to hear this, but I’m going to say it anyway.However, this just reveals one aspect of your personality.The main reason why you are perceived as an intense lover and as a skilled lover is because you’re a very intense person all-around. It is this level of intensity that truly defines the Scorpio personality. You’re not intense for money, you’re not greedy, you’re not overly ambitious and you are not driven by material gain.But if you can deal with an eye roll instead of a flirty giggle when you approach her with your best line, not getting a text back after the first date because she “didn’t have time for that” or having your initial attempts at romance met with snarky comments, you may one day find all of that effort was the best effort you ever spent.Once you’ve earned a Scorpio’s love, and, even better, her trust, she’ll respect you, motivate you and excite you to new levels.In the world of astrology, being a Scorpio is kind of like being the cool — but not necessarily popular — girl in high school. You do things your way without giving the haters a second glance.