Regardless, you'll feel more familiar with your surroundings, which can only create ease and relief.
But she said it is simply her preference for the men that she dates.
“Maybe I’m not secure enough to be with a man that likes other men because I would feel like when he’s out with his boys, it’s just more of a moment, I don’t know,” she elaborated.
“But in my personal life, in my sex life, in who I choose to love, I just think that I would think about it too much. I wouldn’t be comfortable with it and I don’t know why.” Amber made sure to clarify that she was not judging anyone who is bisexual and that she is bisexual herself – she’s not not personally comfortable with dating bisexual men.
“Maybe I’m not secure enough to be with a man that likes other men because I would feel like when he’s out with his boys, it’s just more of a moment, I don’t know,” she went on.
A while back, someone mentioned to me that dating was like a lock-and-key: either the key fits or it doesn't. When I've organized a date, it's quite common for me to call the establishment beforehand, and ask a staff member what they'd showcase if they were on a first date, or a romantic second date.
When you walk up to your house, put the key in the lock, and see it's the wrong key, you don't freak out on the key for being wrong, bad, or anything else negative - you just find the right key. Just because someone is a better fit elsewhere means little, so it's time to stop attaching fear, nervousness or unease over this step of the process - dating is supposed to be fun! Maybe they know of a place nearby to go to after, or a secret hidey-hole, or something to order that will make the evening pop.
You either like them after six months or you don’t and you kind of figure it out along the way and right now it’s just absolutely amazing and I’m super, super happy.” Watch the full show below.
Billy asks, "I'm really nervous to get back into the dating scene.
“I don’t know if it’s me feeling threatened, I don’t know.
It’s not that I’m not okay with it outside of my personal life but when it comes to me and who I lay down with, I’m just not comfortable with it.” Amber said a full answer would require much more thought on the topic and that she will return to the subject on next week’s show.
Let's discuss each one of these things so that you can take steps to ensure a positive, fun, and comfortable dating experience for all involved.