Men call more often than they would when they have just fallen in love. And this energy expenditure is not something that is designed to keep going forever; it’s designed to progress to the next part of a relationship; which is baby making and baby raising. And let me add, what is IMPORTANT in a man’s mind CAN be the difference between life and death. I’m not 100% sure men would describe it the way that I am since I am a female, but that’s how I’m describing it to you in order to help you understand. But it doesn’t mean YOU are not important.‘Relationship’ in this case refers to calling to show that he cares.
He often just forgets to call, and he does not have any bad intent when he forgets.
He can’t allow himself to be in a relationship without him first getting the important thing done. (See Why He Won’t Commit Article)When you are in love, you expend a lot of energy doing things you don’t do when you are not in love; you expend energy on chasing and ‘wooing’ that person.
He felt terrible on the phone with you, so it made matters worse.
They DO use it to chat, but usually they do this the MOST when they are first falling in love with a woman…and this initial in love phase passes.
The same lack of bad intent exists when a man is interested, but is doing something important. It doesn’t matter if right now, you’re sad about what has happened to you in the past, or maybe even angry that someone has done you wrong, it will all change in the future.
To a woman, it is RUDE to suggest that you didn’t call because you were doing something important. When someone says that they were doing something IMPORTANT and that’s why they did not call us, we think they are communicating that something else is more important than US. Neither of us have bad intentions with the other person, we are just being a man or being a woman. Do you want answers to the questions you have about men? Have the men you’ve dated in the past called MORE often than you’d like? You’re about to learn some of the most closely guarded secrets to help you succeed in dating and relationships with men.
Other than to drain his time and resources (even one woman can take all a man’s emotional and mental resources).
Reason 2) Reason 2 is what the rest of this article is about. Any woman who has had a man be in love with her knows this. Not necessarily because he’s no longer in love, but just because the nature of the relationship has changed.(Click here to take the quiz “Am I Dating a Commitment Friendly Man?
Do you have bad intent when you spend hours getting ready for an important party?
Do you intend to hurt or piss off your man by spending far too long putting on make up, or doing your hair, and changing your mind about outfits? My name is Renee, and let me quickly tell you what I believe…I believe you have the power to attract your ideal man, have him fall head over heels in love with you, wanting to commit deeply to you and have the passionate relationship you’ve always dreamt about.
And HIS frustration over your need for him to call you may turn in to something he lovingly remembers to do. Yes, calling a woman is a hell of a lot of work and effort for men. Feel free to let out some anger over this if you want.