Sorry about the rant, my husband was very upset and seemed to deal with it better then me so I feel like I'm going round in circles.I do have a lovely 15 month old son who is the best, when he is around I always have a smile on my face so I am very very grateful for him and enjoy our time.
I'm hoping that after my due date I can finally accept what has happened and focus on the positives in my life.
My Fiance isn't ready for us to start trying again, even though I am but I have to respect his wishes too, but fingers crossed that when we do, it finally works out for us.
Thank you for your reply, it's nice to be able to talk to someone who understands xx I wasn't able to try for another until my due date had passed and my niece was born, we were lucky there's 9 months between the two of them!!
Make sure your fiance reads the letter it might help him open up.
I've heard of people buying a teddy bear or other special things.
Perhaps as you approach your due date you could buy a present that you would give to the baby and then keep it special.
I lost my second baby at 12 weeks in august last year, I also had a miscarriage at 6 weeks in march last year.
I'm starting to feel very emotional again as my March 8th 'due date' is coming up.
I would say (and I might be wrong) that since he is not ready to try again that he hasn't moved passed it, as you think he has.
I used to think that about my husband, he was just keeping strong for me and in fact he could remember the dates etc and it did affect him. I also lost a baby in August, would've been due 2nd March this year. I had an ERPC on August 4th, then in November I got pregnant again.
RIP my little angels have you tried writing your babies a letter? Just put down everything that you would say if they were here.