Another frequent comment I get is “”, so let’s talk about them.
If she doesn’t want the baby, she doesn’t have to keep it. Men cannot force women to have abortions, nor should they be able to. They cannot refuse to assume responsibility for the child.
They will, in fact, be imprisoned, if they cannot pay the woman whatever sum the courts have determined is appropriate.
This is sure to create a happy life, and hopefully a long relationship. We just got married, so I must have done something right, but I can tell you, I did a lot wrong.
And there were tons of things that I never expected when I started dating a single dad, but it has been an amazing adventure.
Let me tell you, I quickly learned that the single dads were, in general, the best guys I met. Parents are super protective of their kids (think about your mom and dad).
They were kind, patient, considerate, and frankly, not self-centered jerks. Introducing a new person to a child’s life is a serious thing.
Their lives were bigger, happier and full of good stuff. If you have been dating a single dad, and he wants to introduce you to his kids, don’t take it lightly.
So, by the time I met Jason, I had scoured the internet looking for helpful advice for single, childless women dating a single dad. But, he had this little girl, who he gushed about, and I was TERRIFIED to get serious with him because I wasn’t a parent, I had no idea how to be a parent, and I didn’t know how in the world I would ever be as special to him as his little girl and how I would fit in their life. You aren’t going to be at the top of his priority list. It means that you are important enough to him, to start including you with his family.
Don’t force things to happen, like the old cliché says, “If it’s meant to be, it will be”.