This will help spark an idea about where to take the message.Bonus: you’ll find out if you truly want to message this person or if they’re just drawing you in with their physical appearance.
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Three sentences are all you need to write in a first message.
This establishes your interest and initiates conversation.
Here’s the deal with the messaging thing, a lot of people have their own theories on how it works, what works best, etc. Others try pick-up-artist “negging.” Some send ridiculously long messages about their background and their overall philosophy and what they’re currently doing with their lives.
Some guys think that it’s cool to copy and paste and throw out a message like bait in a lake full of carp. I’d like to say there’s no right or wrong way to message someone (everyone usually has something that works for them), but there is definitely a better way.Thus making an introduction easier and far less intimidating.If rejection happens it’s not as personal or awkward (usually).Mistake #1: Sending her ‘just’ a wink Most internet dating sites let you send “winks” or “show interest” for free. When that really hot girl gets your wink, she sees a guy that’s not serious about wanting to contact her and too cheap to fork over the membership fee. Mistake #2: Not having a recent QUALITY photo in your profile This one should be easy, but the fact is, most men do not upload their photo. Profiles with photos get 10 times more looks than those without; and profiles with QUALITY photos get 4 times more than profiles with poor photos. When you log on to a dating site and search, don’t you search for women with photos in their profile first? Many women will assume that you have something to hide if you won’t post your photo ñ like maybe your wife.If you don’t like your photo, have a professional one made.You know, there could be a situation where it's acceptable to bring up masturbation in a first text message, because, you know..wait, no there's not.