I’ve gone out with three different guys in the past month.With all of these guys, we talk and have a good time for a few hours over coffee.
It is certainly worth sleeping on it before you consider the next step you should make. You’re sitting in the office, but you’re having great trouble concentrating on your work. This might be nonsense, but ultimately it’s worth remembering that you should neither rush things nor wait too long.
“You should leave a little time before you resume contact,” says Sabine Wery von Limont.
If he doesn’t like me, why doesn’t he just not ask me out again, or just not ask for my phone number? Either the guys really genuinely do like you and do want to go on a date or they don’t and they don’t want to hurt your feelings.
If they did want to go on a second date with you, then maybe the reason they’re not calling you is because they don’t think you’re into them.
He asks me out for a second date, and takes down my phone number.
He even talks specifics for the next date (what day, what we might do).
“On the day after the first date, you can send a text to say that you enjoyed your time together.
Then you can wait a few days before suggesting another date.” If you are a comparatively reserved type, you might well prefer to wait to hear from the other person.
At the same time, there’s a possibility that you could be coming across too eager.