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If you are straight forward it allows both of you to begin with the same expectations of sex. Texting is fine, I’m not against it, but when it comes to dating and meeting in the beginning, don’t text everything to arrange dating.

” (file that one under ‘not helpful advice to tell a woman on her birthday), dating Jake , young, young Jake, turned out to be the best thing I could do for my dating life, my sex life, and my self confidence. After a quick trip to the Halloween store, I had procured a cheap pair of handcuffs; one Snapchat and two hours later, Jake and I were laughing our way through the fact that I thought kids’ metal handcuffs sure to lacerate my arteries were the best way to explore.

What the handcuffs did lead to, though, was my own realization that the younger your partner, the more open they are to being Good, Giving, and Game — noted sex therapist Dan Savage’s theory that the best sex comes from partners being kind, generous, and up to try anything.

Also, for safety sake, many women prefer making the first call.

If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn’t conform to the traditional old ways.

The Respect You Get is Criminally Underrated I don’t need the red carpet rolled out for me, but a common lament amongst my male and female friends is that the majority of the people we date tend to keep everyone they date on the backburner, constantly looking out for the next best thing.

Which has led to dating being something more like a high school reenactment of Waiting for Godot rather than any sort of clarity on where you stand with the person who bought you drinks the week prior.

But date a younger guy or girl, and the respect just seems to follow.

It’s not that the younger person feels grateful, but as someone who’s been the younger half of a relationship more often than the other way around, there is something to be said for freeing yourself from the fear of looking childish around them.

Plus, it can filter out about 50% of the fights I see more age-matched couples tend to get into.

That’s not to advocate for making your younger man or woman a doormat, but it is nice to know that a lot of the more immature fights that might head your way (especially on the whiskey-soaked fight nights) are staved off by the age difference. Stamina This one goes without saying, but cliché or not, my god will dating a younger man keep you young.

And as someone who has long since subscribed to the Golden Ratio of Dating (my heteronormative assumption that for a ‘perfect’ relationship, the man should be three years older than his girlfriend — and, you know, the theory that women lose stock value after 25), I assumed that age was just as important to everyone else.

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