God will do very little for you if your concern is not for His glory. They hate being alone and feel as if their happiness is defined by true love.
But a married man is concerned about the affairs of his world—how he can please his wife—and his interests are divided.
An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord” (1 Corinthians -35). Being in a relationship is a big responsibility that is not for the faint of heart.
And why is it weirder in the context of the Church?
Traditionally, the Church has offered two schools of thought on dating: “It did not exist in biblical times and therefore should not be practiced now,” and “Everything in dating is acceptable as long as you do not have sex.” But both of these fall short.
In 1 Corinthians, Paul shares some insight about the benefits of finding Singles Satisfaction: “Are you married? By all means, keep your eyes open, but do not assume that because there is a mutual attraction with a person, you need to be in a relationship.
You must assess the situation and circumstances realistically and, above all else, pray about it.
I suggested that she take a break from dating so she could clear her head and know exactly what she wants.
My suggestion puzzled her as she replied: “You don’t understand. I would be too lonely.” Things like this happen when a person does not find satisfaction as a single person.
You need to date someone because you love them and they love you.