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It is also essential reading for anyone in a primary or family relationship with a gay male sex addict.

Today, a mere six years after publication, gay male Twelve Step programs now routinely incorporate it as required reading.


A moment comes for every addict when the consequences are so great or the pain is so bad that the addict’s life becomes out of control because of his or her behavior.

Some are news making moments, such as the public censure when a congressman, minister, general, or professional athlete is cited for unacceptable sexual behavior.

Since the first edition of Cruise Control (published in 2005), our sexual landscape has changed irrevocably due to new and evolving technology.

Not only has this greatly impacted how all of us communicate and stay in contact with each other, it’s also changed how we date, mate or even simply hook-up with a stranger.

It is a natural joyous part of life and being human.

But when sex becomes a compulsion or an addiction, it can unravel our lives.

In addition to a sad legacy of HIV/AIDS, gay men typically have higher rates of drug addiction and alcoholism than heterosexuals.1 And recognizing sex addiction among gays is more difficult than identifying it in straight men.

A resource like this second edition of Cruise Control couldn’t be timelier.

The single urban gay man who has problems with sex, alcohol, or drugs is in some ways a prisoner of his own freedoms, having fewer cultural opportunities for self-examination and less cultural support for behavior change than does an average heterosexual male.

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