Set a goal of getting something positive out of every date you go on and there will be no disappointing dates.
Don’t Think Too Many Steps Ahead Like most things in life, it’s important to just enjoy the moment you’re in for just that…the moment.
Don’t Expect Too Much – She’s Nervous Too The first date is a test drive. Don’t undervalue the fact that she’s feeling the unsettling cocktail of hopefulness and anxiety that you’re feeling too.
If you’re having a great time with this girl, don’t get ahead of yourself and start thinking about what’s next or where this new relationship will go.
Just enjoy the fact that you’ve made a great connection and enjoy each step of getting to know someone new.
View that first date simply as an opportunity to be exposed to a person with a set of experiences and perspective different than your own.
If the date is not going so great and you’re not feeling much chemistry, don’t panic.
Shift your focus to finding something else you can learn from the time spent.
“Something else” could be a business connection, a new band to check out or a tip on an awesome new restaurant to try (perhaps one you could take a different, more enjoyable date to).
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