The word implies that she is an older woman and that certainly won’t be how she wants to see herself. Treat her as a lover and a human being, and if you do have a regular penchant for the older lady, then you’re probably best off keeping that to yourself. There’s every chance in the world, although not a given, that the older female object of your desires comes with a readymade family.
Unless she has made it clear that the relationship is purely physical and you won’t be going anywhere near her kids, then you must be prepared to get involved.
Cougar Town, Sex and the City, The Graduate – cougars have been present in popular culture for quite some time, but have never been more greatly represented on TV and film as they are right now.
Just to give you guys out there with little to no experience of dating the older woman a helping hand, follow the rules listed below to ensure smooth sailing on those uncharted waters. There’s a reason that the term “cougar” has been used rather than “panda” or “kitten,” for example.
Cougars are fierce and wilful animals, so much so that even a full grown grizzly bear would hesitate to take one on. If you plan on dating a cougar, you’d better make sure you have the energy and ability to satisfy and keep up with her.
[Read: 20 glaring signs you’re being a control freak] #9 Prepare for the baggage.
There can sometimes be a lot of baggage when you date a cougar, and I’m not just referring to the children.
A cougar is a real woman and she wants a real man in her life – that’s why she went for you in the first place.
So stand up to her when she gets fierce with you, don’t back down, whimper and grovel – give it back to her.
He's trying some new passion project every week and you have to be supportive of every single one.
I know he has the energy of a crackhead on a log flume, but nightlife is for youngs.2.
There could be ex-husbands and boyfriends to contend with for a start, with consequent financial and property ownership issues.