For those wondering why you should date a fat girl, here are 10 reasons that would make you consider: Just a few insights from some of the men we know who are happily dating plus size women.
Ready to look for or meet the fat girl of your dreams?
I’ve thankfully been in a relationship for over two years now–I say thankfully, because it’s tough out there (well, that and I’m very much in love with my boyfriend! As fat girls, we spend a lot of our lives being treated differently–and it’s usually not in a good way. We’re just looking for you to get it and not do more of the same! Again, can’t speak for all fat girls, but lots of us have had a lot of bad experiences when it comes to dating. We get worried if your friends are going to judge us or snigger. I mentioned that most of us have had bad experiences, being the ‘secret’ lover, not ever getting to meet a guy’s friends, and it’s really quite painfully true. There are lots of folks out there who hate fat people.
It’s REALLY bad to make a girl feel like you’re objectifying her straight off the bat. We can’t go into any old store in the mall and find an outfit.
So during a first conversation, don’t qualify why you’re talking to her. Sometimes booths aren’t the best ideas at a restaurant.
Finding love is always challenging, but it’s especially hard in a city with tunnel-vision-like focus on appearance for someone who doesn’t match the high standards set for beauty in Los Angeles.
LA is the national headquarters for the super-fit and the stunningly beautiful.
Cupid’s Library features a list of online dating sites catering to Big, Beautiful Women (BBWs) or Female Fat Admirers (FFAs).
I wrote this for the Bold Italic, for whom I had a short-lived freelance writing career.
A fat girl isn’t exactly what some men dream of dating.
It may come off as cruel but ask any guy and they’ll often tell you their idea of a dream date is someone who looks like their favorite model or celebrity.
(I hope not.) I don’t want to speak for all fat chicks, but we’re looking for something pretty specific.
If you don’t think there are guys out there who like fat girls, you are the fat girlfriend. Be aware that sizeism is completely real, and don’t invalidate her experiences.
Seemingly perfect-looking people flock here from all corners of the earth, whether for the lure of Hollywood glamour or the glorious weather and sprawling beaches.