We know exactly where the other person is each evening and if we’re doing something cool, it’s likely that we’re in it together and telling each other about it face to face.
Overall, our text messages started out very flirty and personal.
Over the last several months, I have dated 3 men (not simultaneously) that I met on
Since the content of our text messages changed so much, I decided to look and see if the time of day we’d send text messages to each other changed as well.
I focused on the messages we sent each other during the month after our first date, our engagement and our wedding.
I then looked at the frequency of specific terms we used in our text messages when we started dating compared to the past year. I took a look at the actual text messages that contained these words, and found that although the terms stayed the same, the context they were used in actually changed over time.
The main difference is that while we were dating, we didn’t see each other every day, so a lot of our communication had to happen via text.
While we were dating, we started thinking about each other around 3pm in the afternoon and we’d send each other text messages until 3am in the morning.
As a married couple, our texting schedule has pretty much flipped.Essentially, guys across America are saying, “Hey, babe.You’re not important enough to get five minutes of phone time.I took a look at all of our text messages from our first year of dating and compared them with our text messages from the past year as an engaged couple and then newlyweds.I started by looking at the words we used in our text messages six years ago versus present day.Our text messages became more predictable, but only because all of the unpredictable things were said in person.